Right now, I am dying to tell someone what I think. If you are in the same situation, let’s consider two things about “Truth.”
1. Truth is not a sword. If you use it to slice someone, the fallout is poisonous and will taint your relationship for a long time.
2. Truth does not need defending. It has its own power (which will prevail in the end.)
Before you tell someone the “truth,” be concerned about the consequences. Make a list of pros and cons. In my case, the cons won, and I realized I wanted the “truth” to change this person. Instead, I’m using it to change me. – Shar McBee